Not many women seek advice over a lack of orgasm during sex. I did and my experience is that there are many women advising others who do not necessarily even know what orgasm is.

Such is the modern day confusion over female orgasm and how it is achieved. Very few women are willing to be specific about how they achieve the psychological arousal required for orgasm. Equally most women are unaware that genital stimulation (penis/clitoris) is needed for orgasm.

What we are left with is a fantasy view of women’s orgasmic ability based on erotic fiction and pornography that rarely matches up to real life unless a woman is a pro at faking.