A smaller percentage (69 per cent) of the females in the sample reported that they had ever had erotic fantasies about males, and nearly a third (31 per cent) insisted that they had never been aroused by thinking about males or of sexual relations with them.

They had not even been aroused by thinking of their husbands or of their boy friends.”

p665 ‘Sexual behavior in the human female’ by Alfred Kinsey published 1953)

Jane’s note: even women, who do fantasize, tend not to fantasize about men they know well.