Comments on: Explanations for women’s sexual arousal http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/explanations-for-womens-sexual-experiences/ The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:45:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/explanations-for-womens-sexual-experiences/#comment-291 Jane Sun, 05 Feb 2012 19:53:18 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1815#comment-291 Unfortunately, with the best will in the world it is not always apparent what a man can do to pleasure a woman. My experience was that, even as a woman, I had no idea what would work. Men's interest in sex causes them to approach the subject of women's arousal with enthusiasm and even confidence. Often though they simply need to listen to what women are telling them. Women do not experience the same spontaneous arousal that men do. The only way that a woman can orgasm during masturation is by using highly explicit sexual fantasies that require 100% mental foucus (like meditation). This is often incompatible during sex with a partner. Men also lose interest in sex when it becomes hard work. For me masturbation is effortless (as long as I can come up with an effective fantasy). I see sex more in terms of pleasuring my partner and (when I am in the mood) enjoying him arousing me. Unfortunately, with the best will in the world it is not always apparent what a man can do to pleasure a woman. My experience was that, even as a woman, I had no idea what would work.

Men’s interest in sex causes them to approach the subject of women’s arousal with enthusiasm and even confidence. Often though they simply need to listen to what women are telling them.

Women do not experience the same spontaneous arousal that men do. The only way that a woman can orgasm during masturation is by using highly explicit sexual fantasies that require 100% mental foucus (like meditation). This is often incompatible during sex with a partner.

Men also lose interest in sex when it becomes hard work. For me masturbation is effortless (as long as I can come up with an effective fantasy). I see sex more in terms of pleasuring my partner and (when I am in the mood) enjoying him arousing me.

]]> By: bandellohttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/explanations-for-womens-sexual-experiences/#comment-290 bandello Sun, 05 Feb 2012 17:25:47 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1815#comment-290 Does it not sort of boil down to whether the man wants to be an egotistical selfish sexual snob and NOT want to take the time to make every effort to please his partner? Come on guys, whether you're doing the "Commando" thrusting and pumping routine,(which is probably what most men are doing) or being extremely sensual by using your fingers, or even better yet, your tongue, pardon the description here; but it's like licking an ice cream cone. You don't want to gobble it down in one big swoop, you want to savor it, slowly, passionately, intimately. So it is by using your fingers, it's moist, warm, succulent, take advantage of feeling her body move against your rhythmic pulses. Get off your high selfish horse and enjoy her responses!! Does it not sort of boil down to whether the man wants to be an egotistical selfish sexual snob and NOT want to take the time to make every effort to please his partner? Come on guys, whether you’re doing the “Commando” thrusting and pumping routine,(which is probably what most men are doing) or being extremely sensual by using your fingers, or even better yet, your tongue, pardon the description here; but it’s like licking an ice cream cone. You don’t want to gobble it down in one big swoop, you want to savor it, slowly, passionately, intimately. So it is by using your fingers, it’s moist, warm, succulent, take advantage of feeling her body move against your rhythmic pulses. Get off your high selfish horse and enjoy her responses!!

]]> By: Brandonhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/explanations-for-womens-sexual-experiences/#comment-289 Brandon Sun, 05 Feb 2012 11:19:24 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1815#comment-289 Male orgasm may be like checkers and female orgasm like chess, but the facts still is that the clitoris has the highest concentration of nerve endings in the body. The clitoris is so sensitive that the body reacts by shutting down and not feeling. Pressing the button may not work for every woman, but people can learn to touch it just right to induce pleasurable sensations. Male orgasm may be like checkers and female orgasm like chess, but the facts still is that the clitoris has the highest concentration of nerve endings in the body. The clitoris is so sensitive that the body reacts by shutting down and not feeling. Pressing the button may not work for every woman, but people can learn to touch it just right to induce pleasurable sensations.

]]> By: Avsokhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/explanations-for-womens-sexual-experiences/#comment-288 Avsok Sun, 05 Feb 2012 09:42:01 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1815#comment-288 Interesting story. Thanks for sharing. Interesting story. Thanks for sharing.

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