Ways Women Orgasm

Women’s sexual dysfunction

admin — Thu, 17 May 2012 23:01:04 +0000

Although many sources refer to women's 'sexual dysfunction', it is rare to find a definition of what is supposed to be sexually ‘normal’ for women in the first place.

Sex involves both reproduction and sexual pleasure. So in reproductive terms, a man could be described as sexually dysfunctional if he cannot impregnate a female (male orgasm required) and a woman if she cannot conceive (female orgasm not required) Continue reading →

Male nudity does not cause female sexual arousal

admin — Wed, 16 May 2012 23:01:17 +0000

The naked male body can be a beautiful sight and yet our heterosexual society is dominated by images of women's bodies. The ancient Greeks were more relaxed about homosexuality and statues indicate their appreciation of the sensual male nude.

Gay men certainly appreciate the naked male, including male genitals but women are often offended by nudity, especially genitals, and so nudity is censored in our society. Andrew Continue reading →

How to use a vibrator to discover orgasm

admin — Tue, 15 May 2012 23:01:25 +0000

Laura was educated and cultured but she also had a worldliness and the classy sex appeal that attracts the most ambitious men. In her early thirties, Laura told me that she had always been confident that she had orgasms during sex.

"...in regard to sexual responsiveness the female matures much later than the male." (p126 Sexual behavior in the human female 1953) When she was twenty-eight, a Continue reading →

Women’s sexual desire

admin — Mon, 14 May 2012 23:01:35 +0000

Women who live alone or do not have an active sex life with their partner sometimes perceive themselves to be sexually needy because they start to doubt their ability to attract men.

Margaret (early fifties, children, relationship 30 years) was confident that she was highly sexual and interested in sex. However, her sexual relationship with her partner had broken down and she admitted that she did not consider Continue reading →

Advice on female orgasm

admin — Sun, 13 May 2012 23:01:30 +0000

Given the practical nature of sex (book-learning only gets you so far!) we tend to assume that sex experts have personal experience to support their 'expertise'.

Such is our embarrassment over sex that even when a person is advising others about sex we think it improper to ask them to account for their sexual experiences. Yet these experiences contribute towards their authority and support their qualifications. Most Continue reading →

Men hope a lover will enhance their sexual arousal

admin — Sat, 12 May 2012 23:01:50 +0000

The sex industry (prostitution and pornography) is a clear indication that men’s desire to enjoy their own sexual arousal and orgasm cannot be satisfied through their relationships with women alone.

It’s easy for a woman to figure out that men want sex… but they also want to be loved and appreciated through their sexual relationship.

Men's sexual arousal is usually easy and immediate. Despite the evidence

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Taking the ego out of sex advice

admin — Fri, 11 May 2012 23:01:53 +0000

Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex when most people have never even read a sex manual?

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but why do they have to flaunt their own sexual ego? Whatever our own personal views there is absolutely no need to express them in a way that belittles other people. Despite their inexperience, women can be supremely Continue reading →

How to pleasure a man

admin — Thu, 10 May 2012 23:01:52 +0000

Tracy Cox (author of ‘Hot Sex’ 1998) tells the story of a woman who welcomes her partner home wearing a sexy nightdress, with champagne by the bed and a pornographic movie ready to play. If she does this regularly over the longer term then I take my hat off to her!

Her partner is a very lucky man. More realistically such pampering to a man's sexual fantasies is Continue reading →

Intercourse does not facilitate female orgasm

admin — Wed, 09 May 2012 23:01:37 +0000

Men's sexual arousal is usually easy, which gives them a natural advantage. As a consequence, while men can usually hope for orgasm from their sexual encounters, most women have to settle for the more diffused sensations of sexual arousal.

“Sex is a very different experience for women and men. A man experiences pleasure primarily as a release of sexual tension. A woman experiences sex in an opposite way Continue reading →

Pleasuring a woman

admin — Tue, 08 May 2012 23:01:46 +0000

An erection might feel good but it is likely to be a disadvantage if a man wants to devote time to pleasuring a woman. After all, two minutes is a typical time given for a man to reach orgasm!

A man can learn techniques for slowing his arousal and increasing the time he takes to orgasm by investing private time during masturbation. “Basically, a man needs Continue reading →