There are so many myths surrounding female sexuality that it is almost impossible to find any advice that is based on the facts.

Female sexual arousal is much more obscure than male and does not arise from seeing the naked body of a partner. Otherwise women would buy porn too.

So female orgasm is much more difficult to achieve during sex with a partner than is ever acknowledged. This is not men’s fault or women’s fault but simply the way Nature intended it to be.

Haaaa! Wow! Scientifically proven and experimented.

What about frigidity, is it effective?

Thanks for the story. Great to know.

Regards,
rmang

I have to wonder why you are interested in this subject? If everything works for you then that’s fantastic. I am not questioning that people have these experiences that read like erotic fiction.

I am interested in discussing any LOGICAL EXPLANATIONS for how women are supposed to achieve these orgasmic feats given the FACTS of female sexuality. Any man will know that genital stimulation only makes sense once you are sexually aroused (erect) but once you are aroused genital stimulation is definitely needed if you want to reach orgasm.

The FACT is that the vagina lacks sensitivity — the clitoris is the female sex organ. To come across even one woman who can feel sensations in a part of the body without nerve endings would be wierd but to come across three such women is positively suspicous.

I’ve offered oral and manual stimulation. She rejects oral because she considers it unhygeinic and a short cut for those who lack skills to do it the regular way. She demands my penis as soon as I have an erection. She orgasms through penile thrusting.

I don’t take credit for her orgasm. She obviously puts a lot of energy into getting them, but once they start coming, she just gives into her feelings. From that point forward, continued thrusting simply heightens her sensations. She demands more thrusting. She says the experience is invigorating.

When I lost my virginity to an older, more experienced woman, she eagerly guided my penis into her. I thrust gently in and out. Long before I had an urge to ejaculate, she had an orgasm, apologizing that she couldn’t wait. After a shower, we made love a second time. While lying there after it was over, she expressed amazement that I was able to hold out so long and disbelief that I had been a virgin. She told me she liked it when I went deep and she described my lovemaking style as “gentle but firm.” She obviously enjoyed my penis and got three orgasms from penile thrusting alone.

Several years later another woman begged me to make love to her and I did. She wanted my penis inside of her. I didn’t give her an orgasm the first time, but she would call me on a regular basis to tempt me. We would go swimming in her sister’s pool. She would turn off the pool lights and swim in the nude. She told me once that her body ached for mine. She wanted a penis inside of her.

I admit I have not had as much variety as a lot of men have had, but the women with whom I have had sex have demanded a penis. Judging from the intensity of their orgasms, they’ve been very satisfied and would have it no other way. My wife tells me she lets me caress her to orgasm with my fingers only for my enjoyment. She prefers an orgasm with my penis.