In fact Kinsey (1953) always said that women were sexually less motivated than men it’s just no one wanted to hear or accept what he was saying.

All that was heard was the fact that some women do experience orgasm and this one fact was hyped up into the modern day belief that all women naturally orgasm during sex.

In fact, Kinsey noted that women achieved orgasm much much more reliably through masturbation alone. Sadly though, we all want things to be otherwise. Both men and women keep insisting that female orgasm must be possible, easy or natural during intercourse which does not even provide enough clitoral stimulation for orgasm.

More fundamental than clitoral stimulation though it the psychological arousal required for orgasm and women struggle to use their fantasies with a partner because they need to focus so intently for them to work.

Wierd but true… at least for those women who do discover masturbation — not all by any means.