Only men are turned on by looking at the genitals of a sexual partner.

Kinsey concluded that most women find genitals of either sex ugly.

My suggestion is that women are turned on by the psychological context of sexual activity e.g. BDSM erotic stories. Unfortunately such activities are often incompatible with a loving relationship and many women find that they cannot use their fantasies with a partner.

The answer is to focus on the more general sensual pleasures of sex when with a partner and to enjoy orgasm through masturbation when alone (if a woman has learned how to do this).

Enjoying eroticism is often about seeing sex from the perspective of the male. If you take a look at a man’s porn you will see that they like women’s bodies in all shapes and sizes – variety is the spice of life!

As long as you have the sexual anatomy of a woman you will be attractive to some man out there. I am suggesting that women read erotic literature to get in the mood and then try masturbation.