Mistresses, for example, are often more experienced women. The attraction for the man is finding a woman who is open-minded about engaging on his fantasies and about exploring more adventurous sexual activities. There is a level of sexual intimacy that only comes from knowing a person well.

When men are obsessing about young women’s bodies perhaps they should give a thought to what turns women on. Women have to work much harder at their own arousal than men ever do. This story also aims to get men thinking — what is the parallel for women? How does a man assist with his partner’s arousal during sex?

Movies are all about our fantasies. Real life is never actually depicted and that means our expectations can sometimes get to be unrealistic.

One can have sex with just about any other person, but a bond with that person is absolutely required if the act is to be satisfying, unless, that is, one of the participants happens to be a well-paid prostitute.