Comments on: How we enjoy our best orgasms http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/ The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:03:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: slydoghttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comment-302 slydog Thu, 19 Jan 2012 22:58:16 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123#comment-302 Like Ringo Starr once answered someone in the movie "Help" when asked how he felt..."i used to use me hand!" :-) Like Ringo Starr once answered someone in the movie “Help” when asked how he felt…“i used to use me hand!” :-)

]]> By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comment-301 Jane Thu, 19 Jan 2012 21:17:01 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123#comment-301 It would be great if women did get turned on by the visual pornography that men enjoy. Sadly many women are disgusted by graphic images of sexual acts. A man needs to find out how his woman feels about the issue. Some couples do watch porn movies together but many other men find that their women are not amenable. Overall, I find stories are more effective for generating sexual arousal than images. Porn movies are good for getting turned on to sex with a partner but do not help me achieve orgasm during masturbation. It would be great if women did get turned on by the visual pornography that men enjoy. Sadly many women are disgusted by graphic images of sexual acts.

A man needs to find out how his woman feels about the issue. Some couples do watch porn movies together but many other men find that their women are not amenable.

Overall, I find stories are more effective for generating sexual arousal than images. Porn movies are good for getting turned on to sex with a partner but do not help me achieve orgasm during masturbation.

]]> By: mllovrichttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comment-300 mllovric Thu, 19 Jan 2012 20:57:45 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123#comment-300 Get the VCD KAMA SUTRA on two CD'S and let her watch the sexual positions displayed in the pictures. It is X rated but it's made on the verbal lines of the KAMA SUTRA by VATSYAYANA. He was an Indian. Chew bettel nut he said, in other words hit the dope because bettel nut produces the same affects as marijuana. Get the VCD KAMA SUTRA on two CD’S and let her watch the sexual positions displayed in the pictures. It is X rated but it’s made on the verbal lines of the KAMA SUTRA by VATSYAYANA. He was an Indian. Chew bettel nut he said, in other words hit the dope because bettel nut produces the same affects as marijuana.

]]> By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comment-299 Jane Thu, 19 Jan 2012 11:24:57 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123#comment-299 Men experience spontaneous arousal as a result of testosterone (the hormone responsible for sex drive) and by the sight of a woman’s body. Women have neither of these benefits. They have to CONSCIOUSLY decide to achieve their own arousal. This is where fantasy comes in. Men are able to go from masturbation to sex fairly easily because they use images of a naked woman for masturbation and then during sex they can substitute a real woman’s body. A woman tends to use quite surreal sexual scenarios (basically kinky and unrealistic) during masturbation. I have not been able to use my fantasies effectively during sex. I would like to compare notes with other women to understand more about how they overcome the difference between their experience of masturbation and sex with a partner. Men experience spontaneous arousal as a result of testosterone (the hormone responsible for sex drive) and by the sight of a woman’s body. Women have neither of these benefits. They have to CONSCIOUSLY decide to achieve their own arousal. This is where fantasy comes in.

Men are able to go from masturbation to sex fairly easily because they use images of a naked woman for masturbation and then during sex they can substitute a real woman’s body. A woman tends to use quite surreal sexual scenarios (basically kinky and unrealistic) during masturbation.

I have not been able to use my fantasies effectively during sex. I would like to compare notes with other women to understand more about how they overcome the difference between their experience of masturbation and sex with a partner.

]]> By: Changezhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comment-298 Changez Thu, 19 Jan 2012 10:56:29 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123#comment-298 Is there no general principle for stimulation, orgasm or arousal for a woman? Like you said, most things work for most men; there must be some overarching principle that most women can apply for arousal, other than self motivation. Is there no general principle for stimulation, orgasm or arousal for a woman? Like you said, most things work for most men; there must be some overarching principle that most women can apply for arousal, other than self motivation.

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