Ways Women Orgasm

My aim is to provide more clarity over HOW and WHEN women orgasm. Masturb­a­tion is the easiest and most reli­able source of female orgasms but, since it doesn’t benefit men and relat­ively few women masturbate, female masturb­a­tion remains taboo.

Kinsey emphas­ised the huge range in sexual respons­ive­ness that should be considered ‘normal’ for different indi­viduals. He also concluded that men are MUCH MORE responsive than women. Yet today no one acknow­ledges this range of orgasmic ability.

A woman becomes preg­nant regard­less of whether she has an orgasm. So women are only thought to be ‘dysfunc­tional’ as a result of modern expect­a­tions for female orgasm, which have been set by the subjective evid­ence of women’s say-so. Even so only SOME women claim to orgasm SOMETIMES with a lover.

Women who talk about orgasm in public are refer­ring to the emotional rewards of sex. The need for mental turn-ons and clit­oral stim­u­la­tion is dwarfed by the passion of ‘making love’.

Media images that exag­gerate women’s true sexual respons­ive­ness are so persuasive that women today are almost obliged to refer to orgasm as if it occurs natur­ally in their sexual rela­tion­ships. We rarely acknow­ledge that public bravado is very different to the personal conclu­sions most of us keep private.

• ‘You Tube: video of Jane’s talk at The Royal Society of Medi­cine’ in London

Sexual Pleasure Meeting on February 17^th 2012. For your FREE slides with notes: Down­load

Refer­ences: (1) Joan Sewell (Amer­ican author): ‘I’d rather eat chocolate’. (2) Kathy Lette (British writer): ‘What women want’. (3) Bettina Arndt (Australian author and ther­apist): ‘The Sex Diaries’.

Past presentations/appearances include:

• Carnal Conver­sa­tions at Home House, London (supporting Colin Richards) on January 9^th 2013
• The Sex Therapy Training Insti­tute in Miami (invited by Dr Carol Clark) on March 10^th 2012
• The Port­er­brook Clinic in Shef­field (invited by Professor Kevan Wylie) on March 15^th 2012

I am willing to travel to most loca­tions to take up oppor­tun­ities to promote my work on female orgasm. Please contact: Jane Thomas founder of ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ or call me: SamNo­sper on Skype!

Both of Jane’s books are now avail­able to buy online in the US & the UK. ‘More info’.