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How to orgasm

admin — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 23:01:40 +0000

Shere Hite explained how women apply orgasm techniques in order to orgasm during intercourse. Women's sexual arousal and orgasm are not automatic and so women have to learn how to orgasm. Inevitably, such techniques take time to develop.

“... the two reasons women don’t orgasm during intercourse are: (1) they are given false information, specifically they are told that the penis thrusting in the Continue reading →

Women’s sexual dysfunction

admin — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 23:01:04 +0000

Although many sources refer to women's 'sexual dysfunction', it is rare to find a definition of what is supposed to be sexually ‘normal’ for women in the first place.

Sex involves both reproduction and sexual pleasure. So in reproductive terms, a man could be described as sexually dysfunctional if he cannot impregnate a female (male orgasm required) and a woman if she cannot conceive (female orgasm not required) Continue reading →

Lack of arousal during sex

admin — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 23:01:40 +0000

Intimacy with a lover causes me to feel affectionate but I am rarely conscious of any sexual arousal. Whether it's sex with a partner, or masturbation for that matter, I am usually pretty much stone cold in arousal terms at the start.

I might conclude that I am frigid if it were not for the fact that I cannot visualise other women I meet approaching sex just Continue reading →

What if female sexuality truly equalled male sexuality?

admin — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 23:01:31 +0000

Imagine the scenario: a man and a woman facing each other, naked, in a world where men and women have an identical sex drive.

So, of course, they are both standing there with an erection. Just to be clear: the man has an erect penis and the woman has an erect clitoris. Would they mutually choose to engage in vaginal intercourse? No because intercourse does not stimulate Continue reading →

Enjoying sexual pleasure

admin — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 23:01:28 +0000

When it was suggested recently that UK schools should explain the role of the clitoris, mothers were up in arms. They objected to their daughters knowing that a girl might find it pleasurable later in her life to touch her clitoris.

There was no uproar over boys' genitals. Were the boys also told that their willies might give them pleasure later on? Boys discover their sexuality 'naturally' and Continue reading →

The ‘non-genital’ female orgasm

admin — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 23:01:15 +0000

In response to my suggestion that it was ridiculous to suggest that a man can give a woman an orgasm, a man wrote:

"My wife is consistently orgasmic. They are obviously not faked. She can't fake the cries, the involuntary movements, the demands for more stimulation, and everything else that goes with orgasm. I've offered oral and manual stimulation. She rejects oral because she considers it unhygienic Continue reading →

Real female orgasms

admin — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 23:01:46 +0000

In the film ‘Private Benjamin’, a group of female army recruits sits around a campfire during an overnight exercise.

One of the women says: “I had an orgasm once…” and the others giggle. She goes on to say in a disappointed tone “…but I was alone!” Her girlfriends laugh sympathetically. In the film, Goldie Hawn plays a spoilt young woman approaching thirty who has been married twice Continue reading →

Understanding the G-spot

admin — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 23:01:34 +0000

The Gräfenberg Spot, or G-Spot, has been surrounded by controversy ever since its ‘discovery’ only decades ago. Some women may have one about an inch or so (2-5cm) up in the front wall of the vagina.

The G-spot is believed to be an erogenous zone which when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms. Despite all the hype many couples struggle to Continue reading →

Most women are not aiming for orgasm through genital stimulation

admin — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 23:01:49 +0000

Some women refer to 'making love' because the term more accurately describes their motives in terms of loving emotions rather than as an explicit sex drive.

Modern expectations cause some women to talk about their sexual experiences (whatever they are) in terms of arousal and orgasm. Some women knowingly fake orgasm but there is almost a sense of bravado associated with faking. We assume that women only fake Continue reading →

The facts of female sexuality

admin — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 23:01:21 +0000

Shere Hite pointed out in 1976 that intercourse does not provide the specific clitoral stimulation that women need to orgasm. So, it is very likely that any woman who claims easy orgasm during intercourse is mistaken.

Especially given so few women masturbate and so most do not know what orgasm is. Women’s talk of the relationship and loving emotions also indicates a misunderstanding about the nature of Continue reading →