Ways Women Orgasm » Female masturbation http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:01:21 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 How a woman can learn to masturbatehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-a-woman-can-learn-to-masturbate/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-a-woman-can-learn-to-masturbate/#comments Sat, 28 Jan 2012 23:01:27 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=8423 If a woman is open-minded to the idea of exploring eroticism, she should start by reading some erotic literature. I suggest:

  • 'Emmanuelle' by Emmanuelle Arsan: relates the sexual adventures of young women;
  • 'The Happy Hooker' by Xaviera Hollander: describes the author's experiences of pleasuring men as a high-class prostitute and the madam of a brothel; and
  • 'The Story of O' by Pauline Reage: describes
Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-a-woman-can-learn-to-masturbate/feed/ 6 How to use a vibrator to discover orgasmhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-to-use-a-vibrator-to-discover-orgasm/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-to-use-a-vibrator-to-discover-orgasm/#comments Mon, 16 Jan 2012 23:01:25 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=511 Laura was educated and cultured but she also had a worldliness and the classy sex appeal that attracts the most ambitious men. In her early thirties, Laura told me that she had always been confident that she had orgasms during sex.

"...in regard to sexual responsiveness the female matures much later than the male." (p126 Sexual behavior in the human female 1953) When she was twenty-eight, a Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-to-use-a-vibrator-to-discover-orgasm/feed/ 1 Comparing orgasm from female masturbation and with a partnerhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/comparing-orgasm-from-female-masturbation-and-with-a-partner/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/comparing-orgasm-from-female-masturbation-and-with-a-partner/#comments Wed, 04 Jan 2012 23:01:59 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=8487 Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Imagine the male orgasm graph which looks a little like a vertical phallic symbol. Then imagine the female orgasm graph which looks like the outline of a woman's vulva.

The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/comparing-orgasm-from-female-masturbation-and-with-a-partner/feed/ 2 How we enjoy our best orgasmshttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 23:01:46 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=4123 Shere Hite identified two main approaches that women used to increase clitoral stimulation and their chances of orgasm during intercourse. They either maximised DIRECT clitoral stimulation by using masturbation during sex or they used positions and techniques for sexual intercourse that maximised INDIRECT clitoral stimulation caused by the penis thrusting into the vagina.

“... orgasm is most likely to come when the woman takes over responsibility for Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/how-we-enjoy-our-best-orgasms/feed/ 5 Female masturbation is relatively uncommonhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/female-masturbation-is-relatively-uncommon/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/female-masturbation-is-relatively-uncommon/#comments Sun, 11 Dec 2011 23:01:48 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=2105 Carolyn, a relationship counsellor in her fifties, told me she thought it unwise to positively encourage female masturbation. She did not give her reasons.

“Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting and a complete waste of time, and don’t understand why anybody does it and are unsympathetic to the view that people might continue to do it even though they have sexual partners. The majority Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/female-masturbation-is-relatively-uncommon/feed/ 4 Women’s sex drive to orgasm during sexhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/womens-sex-drive-to-orgasm-during-sex/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/womens-sex-drive-to-orgasm-during-sex/#comments Tue, 29 Nov 2011 23:01:24 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1676 Becky explained via e-mail: “I had my first orgasm at 26 during masturbation - pretty late I know & since then no stopping me with the sex toys : ) . Plenty of my girlfriends have not though - and like you say, don't seem too bothered about it which I can't understand.”

Despite this evidence Becky was convinced that every woman must be interested in orgasm. Many Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/womens-sex-drive-to-orgasm-during-sex/feed/ 5 Women’s sexual arousal and orgasm are not automatichttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women%e2%80%99s-sexual-arousal-and-orgasm-are-not-automatic/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women%e2%80%99s-sexual-arousal-and-orgasm-are-not-automatic/#comments Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:01:30 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1651 Almost complete mystery surrounds women’s sexual arousal. Women’s PHYSICAL arousal is rarely acknowledged and our understanding of women’s PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal is very vague. No wonder many of us gain the impression that female orgasms simply mushroom up out of nowhere.

Explanations for women's sexual arousal often defy belief. It is suggested that women, unlike men, can reach orgasm in response to many different sources of Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women%e2%80%99s-sexual-arousal-and-orgasm-are-not-automatic/feed/ 6 Women have to learn how their sexual arousal workshttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-their-sexual-arousal-works/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-their-sexual-arousal-works/#comments Sat, 05 Nov 2011 23:01:08 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1667

Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult eroticism that one wonders if they have ever experienced sexual urges of any kind.

Nancy, a recently widowed woman Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-their-sexual-arousal-works/feed/ 1 Women have to learn how to orgasmhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-to-orgasm/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-to-orgasm/#comments Mon, 24 Oct 2011 23:01:09 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=1633 In the film ‘Shirley Valentine’ (1989), Pauline Collins plays Shirley, a middle-aged housewife. Shirley comments: “I’m not particularly fond of it – sex.

I think sex is like supermarkets, you know, overrated. Just a lot of pushing and shoving and you still come out with very little in the end.” (Note: this film was set in the days before supermarkets sold everything from clothes to microwaves!) Shirley Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-have-to-learn-how-to-orgasm/feed/ 7 Techniques women use to reach orgasmhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/techniques-women-use-to-reach-orgasm/ http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/techniques-women-use-to-reach-orgasm/#comments Wed, 12 Oct 2011 23:01:29 +0000 admin http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=8462 I'm sure that men will understand the point. We express our sexuality through two basic phenomena:

  • Firstly, enjoying our own PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal by appreciating eroticism; and
  • Secondly, bringing our sexual arousal to orgasm by PHYSICAL stimulation of the genitals.
Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the Continue reading →]]> http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/techniques-women-use-to-reach-orgasm/feed/ 2