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Some women do explore sexual pleasure

admin — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 23:01:22 +0000

Slowly attitudes to sexual pleasure are changing and more couples are approaching their sex life with a willingness to try activities other than vaginal intercourse.

Basically, if you are struggling with lack of arousal during sex and genuinely want to share your own arousal with a partner then you will need to be prepared to explore activities other than intercourse. Make a special effort once Continue reading →

How to pleasure a man

admin — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 23:01:52 +0000

Tracy Cox (author of ‘Hot Sex’ 1998) tells the story of a woman who welcomes her partner home wearing a sexy nightdress, with champagne by the bed and a pornographic movie ready to play. If she does this regularly over the longer term then I take my hat off to her!

Her partner is a very lucky man. More realistically such pampering to a man's sexual fantasies is Continue reading →

Spice up your sex life

admin — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:01:44 +0000

A young woman, who had promised her father that she would remain a virgin until a certain age, complied with his request by having anal sex with her partners (Note: STD protection and contraceptives still required).

Unsurprisingly, she was very popular with men who tend not to be so hung-up about breaking sexual taboos. To be fair though - we expect more of women. There is Continue reading →

Emotional intimacy may lead to physical intimacy

admin — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 23:01:27 +0000

Sex does not stand alone in a relationship and in long-term sexual relationships couples need to invest in quality time together.

The candle-lit dinners, soft music and flowers we tend to associate with romance provide the backdrop for the companionable aspects of a relationship. Emotional intimacy comes from spending intimate time together by sharing conversation, humour and friendship over dinner, while taking a walk or as Continue reading →

Women who enjoy sexual pleasure

admin — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 23:01:35 +0000

Naturally, some women insist that they are just as sexually driven as men. Even today when pornography dominates 90% of the Internet, women remain incredibly naive about men’s passion for sex.

One woman said: "The basics are this: men like sex and will give affection to get it. Women like affection, and get it during sex. It works out well for both. I believe women enjoy sex Continue reading →

Why is sexual pleasure still taboo?

admin — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 23:01:06 +0000

If sex is so equal then why would anyone need to pay for sex? Prostitution exists because men's drive to enjoy sexual pleasure cannot always be satisfied through relationships.

Most women interpret their sexual experiences in emotional terms as 'making love'. Consequently, wives and girlfriends are often reluctant to offer more sexually explicit sexual pleasuring. Given the strong associations with male gratification through the sex industry, sexual pleasure Continue reading →

Very few women talk about orgasm

admin — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 23:01:29 +0000

After finding no answers from talking to experts, I decided to do my own research by talking to women I came across in everyday life.

I wrote about some of my experiences and conclusions and then asked women whether they would be willing to read what I had written. I made it clear that there was no obligation for reviewers to comment. The first point to note Continue reading →

Sexual pleasure

admin — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 23:01:40 +0000

Self-evidently there are ‘responsible’ aspects of sex as well as the ‘pleasurable’ but sexual ignorance is of no use to anyone.

Young women today are more likely to end up pregnant as a result of pressure from men or from idealised images of motherhood than from any hope of enjoying sexual pleasure. Providing girls with information about their sexuality is an important part of giving women the Continue reading →

Women who want to enjoy sexual pleasure

admin — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 23:01:42 +0000

When I was growing up there was never any embarrassment over nudity at home. As divorcees, my parents naturally enjoyed sexual relationships with various partners from time to time.

So I have never seen any reason why I should not enjoy the same easy sexual arousal and orgasm apparently promised by erotic fiction. Especially since I have been lucky enough to have:

enthusiasm for erotic

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