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Long-term sexual relationships

admin — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 23:01:30 +0000

Why in our liberated times do women still accept ‘putting up with sex’ just to avoid being single? I am not judging anyone else’s experiences. If other women are content with sex as they find it – I’m very happy for them.

But are they really? Or are they simply more accepting? A woman in her early thirties said that she didn’t see the point of sex Continue reading →

Men hope a lover will enhance their sexual arousal

admin — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 23:01:50 +0000

The sex industry (prostitution and pornography) is a clear indication that men’s desire to enjoy their own sexual arousal and orgasm cannot be satisfied through their relationships with women alone.

It’s easy for a woman to figure out that men want sex… but they also want to be loved and appreciated through their sexual relationship.

Men's sexual arousal is usually easy and immediate. Despite the evidence

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Sex for life

admin — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 23:01:21 +0000

One great aspect of men growing older is that they become slightly less obsessed with their own sexual arousal and need for sexual release. Now that his own need for orgasm is less pressing, my partner is able to focus on my arousal and can bring me to orgasm through using a combination of anal and clitoral stimulation.

As a young woman I was never conscious of my Continue reading →

Men are fascinated by sex

admin — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 23:01:44 +0000

When I was seeing Bruce, a sexual psychologist, Peter also went along for one session by himself. It was a rare opportunity for two men to compare notes on techniques for female sexual arousal.

Peter told Bruce how he had masturbated a woman on a transatlantic flight. He had told her about some sexual fantasy scenarios while stimulating her clitoris. Apparently, Bruce was very impressed with Continue reading →

Men’s sexual fantasies

admin — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 23:01:09 +0000

In pursuit of knowledge and understanding of sexual arousal, I went to a large newsagent in London’s Oxford Street to review the covers of fifty or more pornographic magazines lined up on the top shelf. Over 90% were directed towards heterosexual men. Most of the remainder was male homosexual pornography. The few pornographic magazines for women were for lesbians.

Although pornography is labelled ‘adult’ as if this is Continue reading →

The marvel of male sexuality

admin — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 23:01:56 +0000

The film 'The Way We Were' (1973) stars Barbra Streisand and Robert Redford (the Brad Pitt of my mother's generation).

She's the young woman from a humble background driven by political ideals; he's the young man from a privileged family who has no ideals. Of course she's a virgin and she ends up one night with him in the bed naked. He's so drunk that he's just thrown up Continue reading →

Men’s sexual arousal is usually easy

admin — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 23:01:07 +0000

Young men wake up each morning with an erection and have spontaneous erections throughout the day as sex-related thoughts occur to them or simply as a result of seeing someone they find attractive. A boy has no choice but to learn about his sexual arousal and orgasm but, for women, learning how to orgasm is a much more conscious process.

“What’s pink and hard first thing in Continue reading →

Male sexuality involves a high sex drive

admin — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 23:01:30 +0000

Faking illustrates how women are more concerned about keeping their partners happy or not appearing inadequate than they are about reaching orgasm. Otherwise, they would admit their problem and try to find a solution.

Likewise, the debate over which body part needs to be stimulated for female orgasm arises because many women don't know how to orgasm. It is unthinkable that a man would not Continue reading →

Holding men responsible for women’s sexual arousal

admin — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 23:01:37 +0000

Men are often blamed, unfairly, for the difficulties that women have with orgasm during sex. For example, it is suggested that, by coming too soon, a man fails to provide enough stimulation.

In fact, intercourse is unlikely to provide women with enough clitoral stimulation regardless of how long the man keeps thrusting for. “Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection Continue reading →

How men appreciate sex and love

admin — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 23:01:32 +0000

My mother never talked to me much about sex but she did tell me to respect a man's sexual ego. She believed that a man's sexual performance relies on a sensitive lover who understands how to play to a man's sexual fantasies.

A man hopes for a lover who is enthusiastic about sharing physical intimacy and their intimate time together as lovers. Essentially, sex is no fun if Continue reading →