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Tag Archives: eroticism
Why do so few women comment on sexual pleasure?
I am not so crazy as to approach just any random woman on the subject of sex. I know that most women will be irreversibly offended even at the mention of sex. So I choose women who appear to be fairly liberated and then I approach the subject tangentially.
Of the women I have been brave enough to approach, the vast majority have shunned me. It is this Continue reading
Posted in Misconceptions Tagged eroticism, female sexuality forum, Sexual arousal, sexual pleasure, ways women orgasm 2 Comments
Women’s sexual arousal tends to be assumed or overlooked
Much of what is known about female orgasm comes from women’s experience of masturbation. Shere Hite’s work focused on female masturbation and the clitoris.
As a research student in the United States in the early 1970s, Shere (pronounced ‘sherry’) Hite circulated a lengthy questionnaire through women’s magazines and to passers-by on the street. She asked women to answer direct questions about orgasm anonymously.
Only 30% of her
How to pleasure a man
Tracy Cox (author of ‘Hot Sex’ 1998) tells the story of a woman who welcomes her partner home wearing a sexy nightdress, with champagne by the bed and a pornographic movie ready to play. If she does this regularly over the longer term then I take my hat off to her!
Her partner is a very lucky man. More realistically such pampering to a man’s sexual fantasies is Continue reading
Posted in Physical intimacy Tagged eroticism, female sexuality forum, Sexual arousal, Sexual fantasies, ways women orgasm 5 Comments
Why sex is called ‘making love’
The heterosexual act of vaginal intercourse is designed foremost as an expression of love between a man and a woman.
After all, if sex was purely about two people reaching orgasm, then we would more naturally engage in activities that involve more direct genital stimulation. Intercourse is a natural progression from kissing to a man capitalising on his sexual arousal to ‘make love’ to a woman Continue reading
Posted in Emotional intimacy Tagged eroticism, female sexuality forum, reach orgasm, Sexual arousal, ways women orgasm 2 Comments
Understanding women’s sexual arousal
Sex is associated with reproduction and with pleasure. Male orgasm is usually co-incident with ejaculation which leads to reproduction but female orgasm is not required for a woman to become pregnant.
So it’s at least possible that women may experience sexual pleasure (including sexual desire, sexual arousal and orgasm) differently to men.
Men discover orgasm at a young age but women have no way of knowing what Continue reading
Posted in Sexual arousal Tagged eroticism, female sexuality forum, orgasm during sex, Sexual arousal, ways women orgasm 2 Comments
Women have a lower sex drive
Men’s sexual arousal is usually easy whereas women’s sexual arousal and orgasm are not automatic so unsurprisingly sex tends to focus on male sexual arousal.
A man’s orgasm (since it is usually co-incident with ejaculation) is critical to reproduction and so it makes sense that men are motivated by eroticism and able to reach orgasm easily.
Female orgasm, on the other hand, is not required Continue reading
Posted in Sexual desire Tagged eroticism, female sexuality forum, reach orgasm, Sexual arousal, ways women orgasm 3 Comments