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What sex experts have told me

sex experts have told me

When my partner and I decided to get married, his work-mates took him out for a beer to convince him that marriage would mean the end of his sex life.

Naturally no woman ever gave me similar advice. I accepted early on that a woman needs to invest in sex for her man’s sake. Even so, I was prepared to believe that there was something wrong with me

How do women reach orgasm with a partner?

how reach orgasm

Everyone says “but it all works fine for other women”. My question is “How?”

Men have more testosterone. Men get turned on by anything that moves in a skirt with legs. All men naturally masturbate throughout their sexually active lives. They heckle, they ask women to dance, they proposition, etc. etc.

And women? They wait to be asked. Is this a sign of sex drive or

Why sex is called ‘making love’

making love

The heterosexual act of vaginal intercourse is designed foremost as an expression of love between a man and a woman.

After all, if sex was purely about two people reaching orgasm, then we would more naturally engage in activities that involve more direct genital stimulation. Intercourse is a natural progression from kissing to a man capitalising on his sexual arousal to ‘make love’ to a woman

Intercourse does not facilitate female orgasm

intercourse female orgasm

Men’s sexual arousal is usually easy, which gives them a natural advantage. As a consequence, while men can usually hope for orgasm from their sexual encounters, most women have to settle for the more diffused sensations of sexual arousal.

“Sex is a very different experience for women and men. A man experiences pleasure primarily as a release of sexual tension. A woman experiences sex in an opposite way

How to get laid

how to get laid

Men should take comfort from the facts of female sexuality. Most women are unlikely to orgasm from intercourse alone (which provides insufficient clitoral stimulation for orgasm) and yet amazingly few women ask about lack of orgasm.

In addition to the obvious personal embarrassment, likely explanations include:

  • Not every woman is interested in orgasm, whether from masturbation or from sex.
  • Relatively few women masturbate and so

Lust is good

lust is good

I suppose that I have been lucky. My sexual desire to enjoy my own sexual arousal and orgasm is evidently unusual for a woman.

I know that this is unusual because most women talk of love, trust and commitment. From time to time, I positively enjoy jumping on my man.

But it doesn’t work like that, does it? Even if a woman climbs on top (done it

Techniques women use to reach orgasm

orgasm techniques women use

I’m sure that men will understand the point. We express our sexuality through two basic phenomena:

  • Firstly, enjoying our own PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal by appreciating eroticism; and
  • Secondly, bringing our sexual arousal to orgasm by PHYSICAL stimulation of the genitals.

Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the