Ways Women Orgasm

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Lust is good

lust is good

I suppose that I have been lucky. My sexual desire to enjoy my own sexual arousal and orgasm is evidently unusual for a woman.

I know that this is unusual because most women talk of love, trust and commitment. From time to time, I positively enjoy jumping on my man.

But it doesn’t work like that, does it? Even if a woman climbs on top (done it

Techniques women use to reach orgasm

orgasm techniques women use

I’m sure that men will understand the point. We express our sexuality through two basic phenomena:

  • Firstly, enjoying our own PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal by appreciating eroticism; and
  • Secondly, bringing our sexual arousal to orgasm by PHYSICAL stimulation of the genitals.

Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the

Women’s sexual arousal and orgasm are not automatic

automatic sexual arousal

Almost complete mystery surrounds women’s sexual arousal. Women’s PHYSICAL arousal is rarely acknowledged and our understanding of women’s PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal is very vague. No wonder many of us gain the impression that female orgasms simply mushroom up out of nowhere.

Explanations for women’s sexual arousal often defy belief. It is suggested that women, unlike men, can reach orgasm in response to many different sources of

What sex experts have told me

sex experts have told me

When my partner and I decided to get married, his work-mates took him out for a beer to convince him that marriage would mean the end of his sex life.

Naturally no woman ever gave me similar advice. I accepted early on that a woman needs to invest in sex for her man’s sake. Even so, I was prepared to believe that there was something wrong with me

How do women reach orgasm with a partner?

how reach orgasm

Everyone says “but it all works fine for other women”. My question is “How?”

Men have more testosterone. Men get turned on by anything that moves in a skirt with legs. All men naturally masturbate throughout their sexually active lives. They heckle, they ask women to dance, they proposition, etc. etc.

And women? They wait to be asked. Is this a sign of sex drive or

Why sex is called ‘making love’

making love

The heterosexual act of vaginal intercourse is designed foremost as an expression of love between a man and a woman.

After all, if sex was purely about two people reaching orgasm, then we would more naturally engage in activities that involve more direct genital stimulation. Intercourse is a natural progression from kissing to a man capitalising on his sexual arousal to ‘make love’ to a woman