Comments on: Women who enjoy sexual pleasure http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-who-enjoy-sexual-pleasure/ The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:03:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-who-enjoy-sexual-pleasure/#comment-326 Jane Sat, 28 Jan 2012 10:21:26 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=10317#comment-326 James thank you so much for this comment. It's such a relief when someone else out there is willing to admit that sex is not an equal experience for men and women. I meet so much opposition from women who are determined that women should be portrayed as equally sexual as men. Not only is the subject highly political but women also show how naive they still are about men's sexuality. It's as if they are in denial. I know what my sexuality is and it's quite good enough as it is, thank you. But this does not mean that I masturbate as often as a man, seek sex as often as a man or get the same joy out of all things sexual as the typical man does. After all I'm not a man... My aim is to talk about how couples can get the most out of sex by being realistic about what is possible. Most people seem to prefer to live in a fantasy land rather than improve on what they already have. Sex (even without orgasm) can be very enjoyable for women of all ages if the couple accepts that female orgasm is unlikely through thrusting (or any other mechanism with a partner) but that women CAN enjoy more sensual pleasuring. Young lovers do plenty of kissing and touching but this 'love-making' tends to be lost over the longer term. Couples need to overcome their inhibitions about enjoying physical intimacy together and be willing to explore further than the reproductive model of sex (intercourse to male orgasm). James thank you so much for this comment. It’s such a relief when someone else out there is willing to admit that sex is not an equal experience for men and women.

I meet so much opposition from women who are determined that women should be portrayed as equally sexual as men. Not only is the subject highly political but women also show how naive they still are about men’s sexuality. It’s as if they are in denial.

I know what my sexuality is and it’s quite good enough as it is, thank you. But this does not mean that I masturbate as often as a man, seek sex as often as a man or get the same joy out of all things sexual as the typical man does. After all I’m not a man…

My aim is to talk about how couples can get the most out of sex by being realistic about what is possible. Most people seem to prefer to live in a fantasy land rather than improve on what they already have. Sex (even without orgasm) can be very enjoyable for women of all ages if the couple accepts that female orgasm is unlikely through thrusting (or any other mechanism with a partner) but that women CAN enjoy more sensual pleasuring.

Young lovers do plenty of kissing and touching but this ‘love-making’ tends to be lost over the longer term. Couples need to overcome their inhibitions about enjoying physical intimacy together and be willing to explore further than the reproductive model of sex (intercourse to male orgasm).

]]> By: JamesMMurphyhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/women-who-enjoy-sexual-pleasure/#comment-325 JamesMMurphy Sat, 28 Jan 2012 09:39:22 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/?p=10317#comment-325 RE:It would be more useful to ask older women, who have less to prove, what they think of sex. I have tried talking to women of all ages about sex and the vast majority prefers to make no comment at all. In fact, very few women are shouting from the rooftops about the marvels of sex. Unfortunately the majority is intimidated by the sexual ego of the minority (one woman in million). This is So True. I even know one guy who's wife told him on her 50th birthday that she no longer required his services. They're still married as far as I know...8) RE:It would be more useful to ask older women, who have less to prove, what they think of sex. I have tried talking to women of all ages about sex and the vast majority prefers to make no comment at all. In fact, very few women are shouting from the rooftops about the marvels of sex. Unfortunately the majority is intimidated by the sexual ego of the minority (one woman in million).

This is So True.
I even know one guy who’s wife told him on her 50th birthday that she no longer required his services. They’re still married as far as I know…8)

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