Comments on: Young and sexy http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/ The female sexuality forum dedicated to discussing women's orgasm techniques Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:03:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/#comment-197 Jane Sat, 14 Jan 2012 21:12:53 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=504#comment-197 It takes great courage to be open about our own sexual experiences. Anyone who does so makes an easy target for others who may not be so ready to put their own experiences under the spotlight! This all comes with the territory. The evidence supporting women's greater difficulties with arousal compared with men are well documented. I am happy to stand by my stories which have been developed over a ten year research period involving talking to women, experts and reading volumes of information on the specific topic of female arousal and orgasm. It takes great courage to be open about our own sexual experiences. Anyone who does so makes an easy target for others who may not be so ready to put their own experiences under the spotlight! This all comes with the territory.

The evidence supporting women’s greater difficulties with arousal compared with men are well documented. I am happy to stand by my stories which have been developed over a ten year research period involving talking to women, experts and reading volumes of information on the specific topic of female arousal and orgasm.

]]> By: samiam849http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/#comment-196 samiam849 Sat, 14 Jan 2012 20:51:25 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=504#comment-196 Well, trita51 you got to it before I did. The writer is naive. The basics are this: men like sex and will give affection to get it. Women like affection, and get it during sex. It works out well for both. I believe women enjoy sex as much as men do. Well, trita51 you got to it before I did. The writer is naive. The basics are this: men like sex and will give affection to get it. Women like affection, and get it during sex. It works out well for both. I believe women enjoy sex as much as men do.

]]> By: Janehttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/#comment-195 Jane Sat, 14 Jan 2012 11:15:57 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=504#comment-195 I am always happy to hear that some women experience spontaneous arousal during sex with a partner. Unfortunately, this is not true for all women. Remember that if we are to encourage women to be more open about sex it is important that we respect other people’s experiences. In over 10 years of talking to women about sex I have found very few who are willing to be explicit. I am specifically offering reassurance to women who are familiar with orgasm from masturbation and who would like to experience something similar with a partner. If you are able to help by providing specific details that you think might help other women, then please e-mail me: jane@WaysWomenOrgasm.org. I hope that you will appreciate that it is vital that you can do so without insinuating that any woman who does not orgasm automatically during sex with a partner must be sexually inadequate. Please see the contact page under 'About' on the menu above for further details about how to do this. In case you doubt how common it is for women to have difficulty with orgasm during sex then just take a look at the thousands of articles on the web offering advice on this very topic! Of course, these articles always promise ‘easy orgasm’ just so couples don't give up trying! There are very few similar articles promising men easy orgasm so I guess they just have to try harder... I am always happy to hear that some women experience spontaneous arousal during sex with a partner. Unfortunately, this is not true for all women. Remember that if we are to encourage women to be more open about sex it is important that we respect other people’s experiences.

In over 10 years of talking to women about sex I have found very few who are willing to be explicit. I am specifically offering reassurance to women who are familiar with orgasm from masturbation and who would like to experience something similar with a partner. If you are able to help by providing specific details that you think might help other women, then please e-mail me: jane@WaysWomenOrgasm.org.

I hope that you will appreciate that it is vital that you can do so without insinuating that any woman who does not orgasm automatically during sex with a partner must be sexually inadequate. Please see the contact page under ‘About’ on the menu above for further details about how to do this.

In case you doubt how common it is for women to have difficulty with orgasm during sex then just take a look at the thousands of articles on the web offering advice on this very topic! Of course, these articles always promise ‘easy orgasm’ just so couples don’t give up trying! There are very few similar articles promising men easy orgasm so I guess they just have to try harder…

]]> By: trita51http://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/#comment-194 trita51 Sat, 14 Jan 2012 10:50:37 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=504#comment-194 your words "Women do not experience the spontaneous arousal that men do" I must shake my head in wonder as to what women you have spent time with. (or possibley they are VERY, very, young women who have not yet discovered their own sexuallity.) An older woman, say from 30 to 55 are actually easily arroused. A well built man on a beach can absolutely stimulate a woman without knowing him. a womans sexual peak is thirty and beyond. They are quite willing to "act like a whore" in the bedroom and enjoy it, and as well they should, to the fullest. Isn't it a little egotistical of you to think a beautiful woman is dressing and making up to look beautiful for men? Isn't it possible it makes HER FEEL beautiful and confident in herself. From a womans view, your story is quite naive. your words “Women do not experience the spontaneous arousal that men do”

I must shake my head in wonder as to what women you have spent time with. (or possibley they are VERY, very, young women who have not yet discovered their own sexuallity.) An older woman, say from 30 to 55 are actually easily arroused. A well built man on a beach can absolutely stimulate a woman without knowing him. a womans sexual peak is thirty and beyond. They are quite willing to “act like a whore” in the bedroom and enjoy it, and as well they should, to the fullest. Isn’t it a little egotistical of you to think a beautiful woman is dressing and making up to look beautiful for men? Isn’t it possible it makes HER FEEL beautiful and confident in herself. From a womans view, your story is quite naive.

]]> By: adminhttp://www.wayswomenorgasm.org/young-and-sexy/#comment-746 admin Sat, 14 Jan 2012 07:00:28 +0000 http://www.wayswomenorgasm.com/?p=504#comment-746 Excerpt from table (p173 'Sexual behavior in the human female' by Alfred Kinsey published 1953): "Accumulative incidence of masturbation: ... In females: by age of 20 - 33% (increases in middle age) In males: by age 20 - 92% (decreases after teens)" Kinsey notes (p144) that even women who masturbate only do so on average once very 3-4 weeks - men masturbate much more frequently Excerpt from table (p173 ‘Sexual behavior in the human female’ by Alfred Kinsey published 1953):

“Accumulative incidence of masturbation: …
In females: by age of 20 — 33% (increases in middle age)
In males: by age 20 — 92% (decreases after teens)”

Kinsey notes (p144) that even women who masturbate only do so on average once very 3–4 weeks — men masturbate much more frequently

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