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How we enjoy our best orgasms

Shere Hite iden­ti­fied two main approaches that women used to increase clit­oral stim­u­la­tion and their chances of orgasm during inter­course. They either maxim­ised DIRECT clit­oral stim­u­la­tion by using masturb­a­tion during sex or they used posi­tions and tech­niques for sexual inter­course that maxim­ised INDIRECT clit­oral stim­u­la­tion caused by the penis thrusting into the vagina.

“… orgasm is most likely to come when the woman takes over respons­ib­ility for Continue reading

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Sexual arousal during intercourse

When I had sex for the first time, I was disap­pointed because I had hoped that sex would be spon­tan­eously arousing enough for me to orgasm. I didn’t have any clear idea about what I would do during sex except perhaps to respond affec­tion­ately to my lover’s love-making.

It’s amazing when you think of it. I was eighteen years old and a virgin so my vagina was as Continue reading

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Positions and techniques for sexual intercourse

Shere Hite explained in the 1970s how the women in her surveys reached orgasm during sex. She compared women’s success with orgasm during masturb­a­tion to their exper­i­ence of inter­course and concluded that the differ­ence was due to lack of clit­oral stim­u­la­tion.

“To have an orgasm during inter­course, there are two ways a woman can increase her chances always remem­bering that she is adapting her body to Continue reading

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