For many women, orgasm is never an issue. Sex fulfils all their expectations for a romantic and passionate ‘love-making’ act.
Women, who approach sex purely through their relationship, hope for little more than the sensual and emotional aspects of sex. Others appreciate that orgasm involves sexual arousal and genital stimulation.
Women who are familiar with orgasm from female masturbation find that orgasm during sex doesn’t ‘just happen’ but they struggle to find answers given the vague and conflicting advice currently available.
A man would never try to become aroused by focusing on loving emotions. Neither would he attempt orgasm without stimulating his penis. Yet female sexuality is still defined as if sexual arousal and orgasm arise in completely different ways for men and women.
Many women dislike the eroticism that leads to sexual arousal and so they are offended by the suggestion that a woman might need to use fantasy and stimulate her genitals if she is ever to achieve orgasm.
Ways Women Orgasm is for couples who appreciate that women need to use orgasm techniques during sex as much as men do. A truly ‘sexual woman’ enjoys eroticism through her fantasies and hopes for a sexual relationship where female sexual arousal is discussed.
The female sexuality site
Ways Women Orgasm provides sex education for adults so that couples can compare notes on how women enjoy true sexual arousal and orgasm. On this site there are 120 stories that use real women’s experiences to explore the facts as well as the myths that surround our understanding of female sexuality today.
The main aims of Ways Women Orgasm are:
- FEMALE SEXUALITY: To highlight the known facts to help couples differentiate between fact and fiction and to RE-DEFINE women’s sexuality in terms that the AVERAGE woman might reasonably hope to experience.
- ORGASM DURING SEX: To present women’s real life experiences openly and honestly including explaining the sexually explicit orgasm techniques that SOME women learn OVER TIME to enable them to orgasm during sex.
- INVESTING IN YOUR SEX LIFE: To suggest how couples can explore sex play over the longer-term by understanding how men and women’s sexual responses DIFFER and by investing PROACTIVELY in their intimate time together.
Ways Women Orgasm aims to inform and reassure women of all ages: all the pictures are clean. The site aspires to be open-minded but there is nothing that should offend. The discussion is based on honesty not sexual ego and covers: sex drive, the role of sexual fantasies and why orgasm from female masturbation may always be different to orgasm from penetration.
Jane Thomas, author of Ways Women Orgasm, is unique as a modern sex writer because she talks openly about her own personal experiences, both of masturbation and of sex with a partner. Her conclusions are supported by other expert opinions.
Ways Women Orgasm is the most comprehensive and explicit source of information about female orgasm available today. Even well-informed and sexually experienced women can make more of their sexual relationships with men by appreciating the facts. Certainly any couple interested in exploring sex together over many years needs to know the 10 facts of female sexuality.
Excerpt from Jane’s book Ways Women Orgasm (2011)